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Loving who I am...Black & Beautiful

Thursday, 2 August 2012

I love ME....so F***** you...

Just like the main line in Cee Lo Green's...FORGET YOU!!!

A natural journey involves learning to love yourself if you don't already. I must say I a highly narcissistic and conceited individual to some extent.  Okay I know that is bad but I am not afraid to admit it...I LOVE ME :)  I love myself and do not need validation from a man to complete me but I do appreciate a compliment now and again like any woman. That's one thing I believe all women need to do is love themselves so they don't need validation from ANY man. It seems like a lot of young women are not told that they are beautiful by their fathers or people in their lives so the minute a man shows them some attention, or tells them they are beautiful they giggle like idiots and become stupid. Love is blind just like the song by rapper Eve, "and it will take over your mind, what you think is love it truly not you need to elevate and find!" Seriously think women need to know this song as it is great. But when you love yourself truly and want whats best for you you will not be blinded by love...trust me.

So I'm a single lady, I'm not looking for anybody really but I am open to the right person if they come along. I am a open person but when  it come to my heart and love I am slightly guarded like most people out of the fear of getting hurt. Nobody willing wants to get hurt when it comes to relationships and love but it's a possibility. Love/ Relationships are not guaranteed so when you meet someone you put your self out there in hopes that you will have a good outcome, but even then sometimes you get burned. So my heart is guarded like Fort Knox ain't nobody getting in there without a whole lot of work and the key as I for one do not like getting hurt.

What's wrong with me?  

What seems to keep happening is that we hang out and everything is going great and then they go MIA. And then to take the piss some of them see me and wanna say hello, wave or have a conversation. WTF....were you not the one behaving like a child and now you wanna chat...F**K YOU...oh..oh...oh. I just always wondered as its the same with boyfriends once they become ex's they miss you and want you back (some). What they had to lose me before they realized that they wanted me? FORGET YOU!!! 

 

Shit I look great and I'm a wonderful woman so it's their loss :) Yes I said it you lost all of this!!!







So to all you men who cannot appreciate a good woman, the ones who could not appreciate me "F**K YOU".


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